Embracing Change: Cultural Alternatives to FGM as a Path to Empowerment

While the journey to end FGM is complex, hope lies in the possibility of culturally respectful alternatives—known as Alternative Rites of Passage (ARPs). In many communities, these ARPs are replacing FGM with celebrations that honor a girl’s transition into womanhood without physical harm.

“It was beautiful,” says Zawadi, 13, who recently completed an ARP ceremony. “The elders blessed us, and we wore beads and danced. I felt so proud to be accepted without the cutting.”

For girls like Zawadi, the ARP ceremony is a moment of pride and empowerment—a time to connect with their heritage in a way that respects their health and rights. The ceremony includes blessings, song, and symbolic acts like beadwork , all to signify growth and maturity without the need for FGM.

Parents who once supported FGM are beginning to see ARPs as a viable alternative. Mzee Juma, a village elder, reflects on his changing perspective: “I used to think FGM was necessary, but now I see that we can keep our traditions without hurting our girls. When I see them smiling and proud, I know we’re doing the right thing.”

ARPs are becoming a bridge between the past and the future, offering a way for communities to honor their customs while protecting their daughters. “I never thought I’d see this in my lifetime,” says Mama Sofia, an elder who attended her niece’s ARP. “We can still celebrate our girls, still see them grow strong—without the pain. It’s like a new beginning for all of us.”

By embracing these alternatives, communities are finding ways to celebrate womanhood with love, joy, and respect, giving girls the chance to grow up safe and proud.